余慧明




In a modern world obsessed with youth, age seems to be a taboo subject. We try to hide it, or even deny it, thinking that admitting our age will somehow make us less valuable. But what if we embraced our age instead? What if we saw it as a sign of wisdom, experience, and strength?

I turned 50 this year, and I am finally starting to understand the beauty in aging. It is a time of reflection, of looking back on a life well lived, and of looking forward to the adventures that lie ahead. It is a time to celebrate our accomplishments, and to learn from our mistakes. It is a time to let go of the things that no longer serve us, and to make room for the new.


I know that aging is not always easy. There are physical changes that can be difficult to accept. There are losses that can break our hearts. But there is also so much beauty to be found in this stage of life. We have a wealth of knowledge and experience to share. We have a clarity of vision that comes from having lived through so much.

So let us embrace our age. Let us wear it with pride. Let us use our wisdom to make a difference in the world. Let us live our lives to the fullest, and never stop learning, growing, and loving.

Here are a few things I've learned about aging:

  • It is a privilege. Not everyone gets to grow old. So let us cherish every moment.
  • It is a time of growth. We are not the same people we were in our 20s or 30s. And that is a good thing. We have learned so much, and we have grown into the people we were meant to be.
  • It is a time of freedom. We are no longer tied down by the responsibilities of raising young children. We have more time to do the things we love.
  • It is a time of wisdom. We have seen a lot in our lives, and we have learned a lot. We have a wealth of knowledge and experience to share.
  • It is a time of strength. We have overcome challenges and we have come out stronger on the other side. We are resilient and we can handle whatever life throws our way.

So let us embrace our age. Let us live our lives to the fullest, and never stop learning, growing, and loving.


I would love to hear from you. What have you learned about aging? What advice would you give to your younger self?