Carla Denyer

As I sat down to write this article, I couldn't help but think back to a conversation I had with a friend a few weeks ago. We were talking about how we've both been feeling a little lost lately and how we're not sure what we want to do with our lives.

I know I'm not the only one who feels this way. In fact, I think it's a pretty common feeling among people in their 20s and 30s. We're at a point in our lives where we're supposed to have our careers figured out, but for many of us, that's not the case.

So what do we do when we don't know what we want to do with our lives? I don't have all the answers, but I do have a few pieces of advice that I've found helpful.

• First, don't panic. It's okay to not know what you want to do with your life. In fact, it's perfectly normal. Most people don't figure it out until they're in their 30s or even 40s.
• Second, take some time to explore your interests. What do you like to do for fun? What are you good at? What are you passionate about? Once you have a better understanding of your interests, you can start to narrow down your options.
• Third, don't be afraid to try new things. The best way to figure out what you want to do with your life is to try different things. Take a class, volunteer, start a blog, or travel the world. The more experiences you have, the better equipped you'll be to make a decision about your future.
• Finally, don't compare yourself to others. Everyone's journey is different. Just because your friends seem to have their lives figured out doesn't mean you're behind. Take your time and figure out what works for you.

I know it can be scary to not know what you want to do with your life. But it's also an exciting time full of possibilities. Embrace the uncertainty and enjoy the journey.

And remember, you're not alone. There are millions of people out there who are also trying to figure out what they want to do with their lives. So don't be afraid to reach out to others for support.