Four Stages of a Divorce

Divorces come in two standard colors; uncontested or contested.  They both work but the process for each is very different. Uncontested divorces only need a few documents filed.   No court hearings and you can be https://bestdivorcelawyerinbangalore.com/  divorced in two weeks.  Contested divorces are more complex and take much longer.  Below we talk about the process for both an uncontested divorce and it’s more complex cousin the contested divorce.

Uncontested Divorce Process
An uncontested divorce, both parties agree to all the terms of the divorce.  If spouses agree on “all” the terms regarding child custody, division of assets and alimony then an uncontested divorce can be filed.   The average cost for an uncontested divorce is less than $1,600 and takes two to three weeks.

The uncontested divorce process begins with one party drafting the divorce documents.  Both parties review the documents and agree to all the terms.   If both parties agree then a judge reviews the documents.  The final divorce decree is signed by the judge.   The divorce is final.  Unlike the contested divorce process, uncontested divorces do not require a court appearance.

The easiest way to get started with an uncontested divorce is to complete our uncontested divorce worksheet with your spouse.

Contested Divorce Process
Contested divorce occurs when there is at least one issue you and your spouse disagree on.  If you are in disagreement on any issue, you cannot file an uncontested divorce.   Contested divorces are longer, more complicated, and more expensive than an uncontested divorce. The contested divorce process is best broken down into the following four stages; beginning, motions, discovery, and trial.

Stage 1: The Beginning
The initial step in getting a divorce is filing the Compliant.  The Complaint is the legal document asking for the specific terms of the divorce. It  can include requests for things like child custody, child support, division of property, division of debts, spousal support, and attorney fees. The party filing the Complaint is the plaintiff and the parties who must respond to the Complaint is the defendant. The plaintiff must personally serve the defendant with the Complaint.

Strict rules govern how to personally serve a defendant.  Most divorce attorneys use a company to hand deliver the papers to the defendant at home or work.

Along with the Complaint, the plaintiff must serve the defendant with a Summons and a Joint Preliminary Injunction (JPI). The Summons is the court’s official notice to the defendant they are being sued. It also notifies the defendant that they have 20 days to respond to the Complaint. The JPI prohibits the parties from selling anything or making substantial purchases during the divorce process. The Court does this to prevent the parties from intentionally messing with the status quo just because a divorce was started.

Stage 2: Motions and Temporary Orders
If a settlement cannot be reached, then going to court may be necessary.  In the next stage, the court will start to schedule court hearings.

The first hearing is usually the Case Management Conference (CMC). The goal of a CMC is to determine what has been settled and what has not.  It’s also a time for the court to schedule a settlement conference, schedule an appointment with Family Mediation Center (FMC) for custody terms, and look at future dates for a trial.

A settlement conference is where everyone meets with a different judge to see if the issues can be resolved.  At FMC, a mediator will work with the parties to create custody schedule for the children.

If a settlement cannot be reached, a spouse may file a Motion Temporary Orders.  During the case either party can request the judge make temporary decisions. Common requests cover issues such as who can live in the home during the divorce, who pays child support and how much, who pays spousal support, who will have custody of the child, etc.

Stage 3: Discovery
Discovery is where each side is allowed to request evidence from the other side.  This is the fact-finding or investigative portion of the divorce process.  The discovery process can be accomplished by requesting the others side to answer question, asking for copies of documents, subpoenas, or depositions.

Interrogatories, typically called ROGS, are questions. The ROGS will ask specific questions, which you must answer. Requests for documents, called RFP’s, is a request for documents. You must provide any of the requested documents you have or can get. Typical requests are bank records, medical records, pay stubs, contracts, etc. Nothing is off-limits. You may not like the request and refuse to produce the documents. Talk with your divorce attorney first. You are usually better off giving them the documents.

Depositions are formal interviews conducted by both divorce lawyers who interview the other party or witnesses under oath. Depositions are usually scheduled after the ROGS and RFP’s. The attorney will use the answers from the ROGS and admissions to choose specific questions.

Stage 4: Trial
Trial is the final hearing where the judge reviews all the evidence and makes a final decision.

At trial, both parties present all the evidence gathered.  Both parties have witnesses testify before the judge. A trial only takes a day or two but takes many days for your divorce attorney to prepare. Your attorney needs to have a game plan for every piece of evidence and every potential witness.

After the trial is over, the judge will make a final ruling. The judge may make the order immediately after trial or several weeks later. One of the attorneys writes up a document detailing the order. This is the final divorce decree and details the final decisions regarding all legal matters presented to the court. Both parties must follow this order.