Don't Be So Quick to Judge: Finding Understanding in Unexpected Places





We all do it. We make assumptions about people based on their appearance, their social status, or their beliefs. But what if we took a step back and tried to understand where they're coming from? What if we looked for common ground instead of focusing on our differences?
I've learned that people are often more complex than they seem. Take Cheryl Reeve, for example. She's the head coach of the Minnesota Lynx, one of the most successful women's basketball teams in the WNBA. She's also a devout Christian who believes in the power of prayer.
I'll admit, I was a little skeptical when I first heard about Cheryl. I'm not religious myself, and I've always been wary of people who are too outspoken about their faith. But as I got to know Cheryl, I realized that she's not the kind of person who would ever judge someone for their beliefs. She's open-minded and compassionate, and she always tries to see the best in people.
One day, I asked Cheryl how she reconciles her faith with her work as a basketball coach. She smiled and said, "It's simple. I believe that God wants us to love one another, and that includes our opponents. I want to win, but I also want to treat my players and the other team with respect."
Cheryl's words really resonated with me. I realized that she's not just a great coach, but also a great role model. She shows us that it's possible to be both successful and compassionate, and that we should never judge someone based on their beliefs or appearance.
I'm grateful for the opportunity to have gotten to know Cheryl. She's taught me that it's important to be open-minded and to look for the good in people, even if they're different from us.
Next time you're tempted to judge someone, take a step back and try to understand where they're coming from. You might be surprised at what you find.