Here's the Truth: It's More Like 5
I've found the key to breaking up with a guy you've only been dating for a few weeks — and it involves performing a ridiculous number of sit-ups in a busy city park while he watches with increasing concern (and then pretending to pass out while your best friend comes running over with a sandwich and bottle of water) .
I'm kidding, of course.
But in all seriousness, breaking up with someone is never easy. And while there's no one-size-fits-all solution, there are a few things you can do to make the process a little bit smoother.
First, be honest with yourself about your reasons for wanting to break up. Are you really not feeling it anymore, or are you just having a bad day? If you're not sure, it's probably best to wait and see how you feel tomorrow.
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Second, be kind and respectful to your partner. This doesn't mean you have to sugarcoat things, but it does mean being honest and direct without being hurtful.
Third, be prepared for a reaction. Your partner may be sad, angry, or even relieved. Whatever their reaction, be understanding and supportive.