Irfan Ali is a LYING, MARRIED Pig that LIES about being SINGLE!!!

If you're white, he'll try and fuck you and convince you he's NOT married or is SEPARATED---all LIES!!!

I met Irfy on Meetup.com August 2011. I emailed him and he emailed me back almost immediately. He started flirting with me right away. He seemed nice enough. He was even local to the DC area where I lived, or so I thought. LIES.

He told me he was single and without kids. He later told me he was divorced. He PROMISED he was single!!! Later still he told me he was married with a child, but it's okay----he's TOTALLY separated and living in NYC and his wife is living in Connecticut with her family. He would get a job and live near me, with me because he loved me, etc., how he wished he met me years ago. He's a master of placating people.

He Eventually said he was in an arranged marriage and it didn't work out and all they did was argue. He said she moved out in April 2012. I kept asking about his residency and he said she was from the Netherlands, not even Indian. He also later said she was a US citizen. Huh? He said he could have gotten his citizenship from her, but he didn't want her to feel like she was being used for that. He said he likes to do everything by himself with no help. He said once his greencard comes through, he will get divorced. He said he doesn't even like Indian women.

I found out April 2013 the extent of all his lies---he was married and living with his wife and child the entire time I knew him. All the times I begged to see him and he said he was busy moving for another job, or staying in a hotel was always a lie; He was always with his wife. He made me feel paranoid for asking him questions and brought me to tears so many times. He said he was faithful and was never with anyone when we were together.

He would promise me so many things, say he loved me, say he would take me to Vermont for a weekend, then never follow through with any of it after he got sex. He never even bought me a gift the entire time I knew him. He used his child as an excuse as to why he had no money. I later found a receipt showing he paid cash for his SUV, which he initially told me he leased. I didn't know human beings could lie this much. He's a very sick person who is arrogant and completely lacks a conscience. He doesn't care how much pain he causes other people. Everything is about him. He has no respect for women. I even had to go to the doctor once because he damaged my breasts so badly that cells inside them actually died because he is so brutal during sex.

This man is a sick predator. He claimed he was molested as a child, using that, his child, and even his culture to explain his behavior when he's unavailable. It's because he's MARRIED and living with his daughter and wife. I've never knew someone could be so cruel until I met him. This man actually ADMIRES men that cheat on their wives---his closest friends are cheaters!!!

Nothing about him is honest. If you meet this guy, RUN!!!