Really? I Can't Hear You!




In a world of constant noise and distraction, it's no wonder that we find it increasingly difficult to truly listen to others.

We often get lost in our own thoughts, judgments, and biases. We are so eager to make our point or defend our position that we forget to really hear what the other person is saying.

When we don't listen, we miss out on opportunities to learn, to connect, and to make a difference in the world.

How can we become better listeners?

Here are a few tips:

* Pay attention to what the other person is saying and not just to the words they are using.

Look them in the eye, nod your head, and ask clarifying questions. Let them know that you are interested in what they have to say.

* Be present and engaged in the conversation.

Put away your phone, turn off your music, and give the other person your full attention. Let them know that you are listening to what they have to say.

  • Listen without interrupting.
  • This can be difficult, especially if you have a strong opinion on the matter. However, it is important to let the other person finish speaking before you say anything. This will show them that you respect them and that you value their opinion.

  • Ask questions to clarify what the other person is saying.

  • This will help you to better understand their point of view and to avoid misunderstandings.

  • Summarize what the other person has said to make sure that you have understood them correctly.

  • This will also help to build rapport and to show the other person that you are interested in what they have to say.

    Listening is a skill that takes practice. The more you practice, the better you will become at it.

    So next time you are in a conversation, try to really listen to what the other person is saying. You may be surprised at what you learn.