UM, WHAT?!

Okay, let's start with a story. I was scrolling through social media the other day, and I came across a post about a new study that said people who use the word "um" a lot are more likely to be perceived as unintelligent. And I was like, "UM, WHAT?!"
As someone who has been known to, shall we say, liberally employ the linguistic interjection "um" in my speech, this was not exactly welcome news. But then I started thinking about it, and I realized that there's more to "um" than meets the ear.
In fact, I believe that "um" is an essential part of human communication. It's a way for us to pause and collect our thoughts, to signal that we're not finished speaking, and to show that we're engaged in the conversation.
Think about it. When you're talking to someone, do you ever just stop mid-sentence and stare at them? Of course not! That would be weird. Instead, you probably use some kind of verbal filler, like "um," "like," or "you know."
These verbal fillers serve a number of important functions. First, they help us to maintain the flow of conversation. When we're talking, we don't always have our next words lined up perfectly. So we use verbal fillers to give us a moment to think about what we want to say next.
Second, verbal fillers help us to signal that we're not finished speaking. When you're in a conversation, there are often times when you want to pause and collect your thoughts before you continue speaking. Verbal fillers can help you to do this without losing your turn.
Third, verbal fillers can help us to show that we're engaged in the conversation. When you're talking to someone, you want them to know that you're listening and that you're interested in what they have to say. Verbal fillers can help you to do this by showing that you're actively processing what they're saying.
So, next time you find yourself using the word "um," don't be ashamed. Embrace it! "Um" is a powerful tool that can help you to communicate more effectively.
And who knows, maybe it will even make you sound more intelligent.
In fact, I'm going to go out on a limb and say that "um" is the new black. It's the new way to show that you're smart, confident, and engaged. So go ahead, use "um" with pride!
The world needs more people who are willing to be themselves, even if that means using the occasional "um."
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So, what do you think? Are you an "um" user? Do you think it's a good thing or a bad thing? Let me know in the comments below!