What You Don't Know About That's Just How We Do It Here Will Blow Your Mind




We've all heard the phrase "that's just how we do it here" at some point in our lives. It's often used to justify a certain way of doing things, even when it seems illogical or inefficient. But what if I told you that there's more to this phrase than meets the eye? What if it's actually a way of preserving our culture and traditions?

I was born and raised in a small town in the Midwest. Things were done a certain way there, and if you questioned it, you were met with the inevitable response of, "that's just how we do it here." I remember one time when I was a kid, I asked my mom why we always had to eat the same foods for dinner every week. Her response? "That's just how we do it here."

As I got older, I started to question this phrase more and more. Why did we have to do things a certain way just because that's how they had always been done? Wasn't there room for improvement? I soon realized that this phrase was often used as a way to shut down any kind of change or progress.

But over time, I've come to see this phrase from a different perspective. I've learned that it's not just about following tradition for tradition's sake. It's about preserving our culture and the values that are important to us. It's about creating a sense of community and belonging. When we do things "the way we always have," we are connecting with our ancestors and the people who came before us.

Of course, there are times when it's important to question the status quo and to challenge the way things have always been done. But I think it's important to do so with respect and an understanding of the reasons behind why things are the way they are. After all, there's often more to a tradition than meets the eye.

So the next time you hear someone say, "that's just how we do it here," don't be so quick to dismiss it. Take a moment to ask yourself why things are done that way and what it means to the people who do them. You might just learn something new.

A Personal Story: How I Learned to Appreciate "The Way We Do It Here"

When I was in college, I studied abroad in a small town in Italy. I was excited to experience a new culture and to learn about different ways of life. But I quickly realized that there were some things that were very different from what I was used to. For example, the food was much more simple and the pace of life was much slower.

At first, I was frustrated by these differences. I wanted to eat the same foods I ate at home and I wanted to be able to get things done quickly. But over time, I started to appreciate the unique charm of this small town. I learned to enjoy the slow pace of life and I discovered that the simple food was actually quite delicious.

One day, I was talking to a local woman about my experiences. I told her that I was surprised by how different things were in Italy. Her response? "That's just how we do it here."

At first, I was taken aback by her response. I had never thought of it that way before. But the more I thought about it, the more I realized that she was right. The way of life in this small town was unique and special, and it was important to the people who lived there.

I've since come to appreciate the importance of tradition and culture. I think it's important to be open to new experiences and to learn about different ways of life. But I also think it's important to value the traditions and culture of our own communities.

So the next time you hear someone say, "that's just how we do it here," don't be so quick to dismiss it. Take a moment to ask yourself why things are done that way and what it means to the people who do them. You might just learn something new.