Why I'm Giving Up on Making My Bed: A Journey of Self-Discovery and Pillow Fort Construction




I used to be a bed-maker. I prided myself on my crisp sheets, perfectly tucked corners, and the satisfaction of a job well done. But then, one fateful morning, everything changed.

As I reached for the comforter, I froze. A wave of rebellion washed over me. Why was I doing this? What did it matter if my bed was slightly rumpled or my sheets not perfectly aligned? A bed is for sleeping, not for show.

So, I dropped the comforter and walked away. And in that moment, I felt a profound sense of liberation. I had broken free from the shackles of societal expectations.


A Newfound Appreciation for Messiness

At first, my unmade bed was a source of guilt. But over time, I began to appreciate its chaotic beauty.

The wrinkles in the sheets told the story of my restless nights, the tangled blankets reflected my dreams, and the discarded pillows became cozy fortresses where I could hide from the world.

I learned that messiness can be a gateway to creativity. It's a space where ideas can flourish and where imagination can run wild. And most importantly, it's a reminder that perfection is overrated.


The Power of Pillow Forts

With an unmade bed came a newfound passion: pillow fort construction. I transformed my bedroom into a magical realm of cushions and blankets, a place where I could escape from reality and let my imagination soar.

In my pillow fort, I could be anything I wanted. I was a brave knight, a fearless adventurer, or simply a kid having the time of their life. It was a space where I could connect with my inner child and embrace the joy of creativity.


The Importance of Self-Care

Giving up on making my bed taught me the importance of self-care. It showed me that it's okay to prioritize my own well-being and that it's not selfish to take some time for myself.

In a world that often demands perfection, an unmade bed is a symbol of resistance. It's a reminder that we are not perfect and that it's okay to embrace our imperfections.


Call to Action

I urge you, fellow bed-makers, to join me in this revolution. Let us break free from the shackles of societal expectations and embrace the beauty of an unmade bed.

  • Let your sheets breathe and wrinkles form.
  • Build a pillow fort and let your imagination run wild.
  • Prioritize your own well-being and take some time for yourself.

In the end, an unmade bed is not about laziness or sloppiness. It's about embracing the beauty of imperfection, prioritizing self-care, and finding joy in the unexpected.

And remember, the next time someone tells you to make your bed, just smile and say, "But why? My pillow fort needs me."